Dec 082011
 

How to Set Up Your Twitter AccountWhether you just signed up for Twitter or you’ve been Tweeting for years, it never hurts to give your account settings a review once in a while.  Here’s a run-down on a variety of the settings, for those of you who are just getting your feet wet in Twitter…

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Choose your username carefully.  You can change it, but your friends will come to know you by it, so don’t make them have to learn something new unless you really need to switch. Fullscreen capture 11152011 44358 PM Use your blog domain name/address or your first name.  Add your last name or an initial if you like, but keep in mind that you want people to be able to remember it easily.  (My username is @merrittsgret, but of course, people often misspell my husband’s name and I miss the fact that they @ mentioned me.)

imageIf I were you I wouldn’t display the location on my Tweets, but that’s a privacy preference.

imageOf course, you can actually protect the content of your Tweets and make people ask for approval before they can follow you.  I understand that many people have reason to do this.  But if you choose that option, keep in mind that it may be giving you a false sense of privacy.  It’s easy to re-tweet a Tweet forgetting it was a protected Tweet.  And even though your Tweets are protected,  replies to them aren’t—meaning the replies can often give away the contents of even protected Tweets. Continue reading »

Dec 072011
 

Why Twitter is Confusing“Twitter is so confusing!”

It’s the top complaint I hear from non-Tweeters about Twitter.  (A close second would be jokes about twits and tweets.  Ahem.)

But it’s true—Twitter can be confusing.  Especially to someone without a Twitter account.  A page full of @’s and #’s looks a lot more like bleeped-out swear words than something that makes any sense.  They’re just seeing fragments of conversations, with acronyms and symbols that mean nothing to them.

And if they actually try to follow someone’s Twitter stream via an RSS feed reader, it only adds to the confusion, making it harder to figure out what they’re talking about.

That’s why some of my friends have finally signed up for Twitter: just to more easily follow their own friends who Tweet.  And it does make it easier.  Because then, instead of just seeing one-sided conversations, your Twitter feed shows only the discussions between those you are friends with.  You won’t see replies to people you don’t know.  It will all make a little more sense—if you actually have time to follow it.

The truth is, that Twitter is more than just confusing—it can be time-consuming.  So don’t delve into it unless you really want to invest some time into figuring it all out.  It won’t be easily understood unless you do.

But if you want to figure it all out?  I’m here to help!

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Nov 152011
 

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It’s a good thing Facebook wasn’t hiding some private messages back when my friend Abigail got her first message from a guy named Joe.  He wasn’t her friend on Facebook, so the message would likely have been hidden under “Other”.  And it wouldn’t have been until she saw a link today that she’d have discovered all the messages hidden under “Other”, including Joe’s saying he was interested in meeting her. 

Thankfully, their story has a happier ending.  Facebook wasn’t hiding messages back then.  And Joe and Abi are happily married today.

imageBut just in case your story may someday run along the same happy course as Joe and Abi’s, you might want to go to https://www.facebook.com/messages/other/ and find out how many unread messages you have hiding there.  It appears that Facebook puts anything it thinks might be spam, including messages from groups/pages you’re a member/fan of, as well as messages from people who aren’t your Facebook friends.

Fullscreen capture 11152011 104622 AMThere’s no bulk edit feature (yet), but while reading the message, you can choose “Move to Messages” from the “Actions” drop-down. 

Unfortunately, Facebook doesn’t show you the “Other” section unless you’re already viewing your messages at https://www.facebook.com/messages/, and even then it doesn’t show you the number of unread “Other” messages.  Likewise, a search for “spam” or “unread” messages doesn’t show any of the messages they’ve hidden under “Other.”

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Fullscreen capture 11152011 105353 AMSo take heart—just when you thought you had “No Messages” from that future special someone, that prospective client, that agent who is going to make you famous—it might only take a check in your “Other” messages to find those few lines that will change your life. Winking smile

And if not, you can at least have fun archiving all the mass messages from your favorite pages.


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Oct 042011
 

Last week, I posted a question on my personal Facebook wall.  I asked my friends if they were going to see the new movie “Courageous.”  Their responses varied from the details of why they were waiting until it came out on DVD to saying, “Can you believe it’s not showing in ___________?” and “We’re going—it’s here in ______________!” 

It was yet another reminder of why I don’t plan to enable the “subscribe” option on my personal profile

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Sep 302011
 

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imageThe other day a friend added me to a group which was very specific to my locale.  I promptly left the group.

Then I messaged my friend.  I suggested that they make the group a “secret” one—and then I’d gladly rejoin.

Because as it was, the group was public.  Anyone and everyone could see the names of the people who were posting, and what they were posting—some of which was very personal contact information.

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Even if the group was “closed”, people would still be able to see my name as a member—and due to the name of the group, they’d be able to figure out easily where I lived.

I’m not paranoid, I just try to be careful.  And that includes what Facebook groups I join.

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Sep 292011
 

There have been a lot of helpful posts written about the new Facebook layout this past week.  But none that I’ve seen have dealt with the biggest privacy issue: tagging.  Whenever you tag someone in a picture or a post, all of their friends can also see and comment on your post—unless you are sharing with only a custom group.

This post doesn’t go into everything about understanding the new Facebook.  This post simply contains just the steps that our little fictional friend Tib—or her mom—will need to complete in order to keep Tib’s Facebook account private. 

Because Tib, you know, was so excited that she was finally allowed to get a Facebook account.  But with all the changes, her friends are posting statuses telling her to hover over their name and unsubscribe (this really only gives false security).  And her mom is so worried about all the privacy issues that Tib is afraid she’s going to make her delete her account.

This post is to reassure Tib and her mom—and to give the rest of you the non-technical details on how to keep your Facebook photos and posts viewable to just your friends.

Read on for details on these simple steps:
A. Choose & Populate Lists
B. Set Default Privacy Level to Your Custom List(s)
C. Enable Tagging Moderation
D. Check Privacy Level of Your Information

Plus…
Editing Posts on Your Timeline
Things to Remind Tib About…

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