Dec 292011
 

Three CupsIt’s a simple “lesson in life and money for children.”  The story of Three Cups contains pleasant illustrations by April Willy—from the big, tall bank building to the dollar bills overflowing from the tea cups, not to mention the adorable little boy with blue eyes and a baseball cap.  It’s easy to read and depicts quite simply the long-term benefits of giving, saving, and spending.

Three Cups uses the idea of separating a weekly allowance into three separate cups labeled give, save, and spend.  We didn’t grow up with an allowance, and at this point don’t plan to give our children one.  However, I was easily able to change the references to a weekly allowance woven throughout the tale into “birthday money” and “got paid for a job”, etc.

my childhood bankI grew up with a little divided bank—there were three little spots for giving, saving, and “fun”, and one big spot for “goal money.”  But my thrifty young self put a label over the “10% savings” and turned it into “10% goal”, allotting the 70% for savings.  (The savings label has long fallen off, but the bank still sits in my childhood bedroom dresser, where my sister uses it to store extra cash.)

CPA Tony Townsley’s tale Three Cups (written by Mark St. Germain) keeps it simple—it doesn’t tell you how much to put in each cup, it doesn’t require a special bank.  And yet, it plants the ideas of bank accounts and interest into young minds.  There are 10 tips for parents at the back, and even a website where you can share your stories of an adventure with three cups.

And, Tommy Nelson Publishers wants to give one of you a copy of Three Cups to help a young person in your life get the new year started with some great financial goals!  To enter the drawing, comment to tell us about a childhood money memory, your favorite piggy bank, or a lesson you learned young in life about giving, saving, or spending.  Giveaway ends Wednesday, January 4, at midnight EST.  {Congratulations to Erin for winning a copy of Three Cups from Tommy Nelson Publishers!}

(Click here to view a flipbook preview of Three Cups.  Plus, you can check out Crown Financial Ministries’ articles on a similar theme: “Children and Finances” part 1 and part 2.)

Dec 222011
 

Interrupting the Twitter 101 series to highlight the changes to your Facebook profile..aka, the new Timeline!

What is Timeline?

It’s the new version of your Facebook profile.  It features a large “cover” image across the top of the page, and then an all-new layout featuring your statuses, photos, and more.

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imageimageInstead of constantly clicking “older posts” like you used to, you can quickly choose a year and month from which to view statuses/photos/etc. It’s a scrapbooker’s dream online profile!

It’s definitely different than the old, straightforward profile.  But as one friend put it, “I’m rather fascinated with the Facebook Timeline.  One thing I disliked about Facebook is the passing, short-lived nature of the content. I have felt it was a poor use of my time to invest in a place where everything became outdated so fast and was not accessible (except for scrolling down, down, down, down to older posts).  I can’t believe there is now something I actually like about Facebook.  I think the Timeline is the most aesthetically pleasing thing I’ve seen Facebook create. I want it! I want it!!!”

How do I get it?

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Dec 212011
 

IMG_5963The last of the Christmas cards are tucked into the mailbox, and it’s time to share our letter in the virtual post card exchange at YLCF.  There’s a row of candy cane boxes on the kitchen shelf, ready to be made into our traditional Oatmeal Candy Cane Cookies.

Several fresh inches of snow fell last night.  The fire’s crackling in the stove.  And the tree, though it appears to be leaning to one side a bit more than it was, is decked out gloriously in handmade and gifted ornaments, which are slowly being moved up higher and higher out of the reach of three sets of prying little fingers.

I can tell it’s the day before winter begins—I feel quite ready for hibernation.  We have five very tired teddy bears in this house.  I think we’d all be glad to get up, eat breakfast, and go back to bed.  But alas, there’s still end-of-the-year bookwork to do, not to mention presents to wrap, cookies to bake, laundry that’s piling up, and that ever-pressing need to provide some sort of food for the family to eat (other than just Christmas cookies, you know).

I want to sit and stare at the tree and fold the clothes to the tunes of Christmas music.  I want to stare out the window at the sparkling snow and soak up every bit of the season.  Instead, I find myself racing around, stressing about things that are of no importance whatsoever in the light of the Light of Christmas.

So I sit down on the couch, I put up my feet, and I visit some of my favorite blogs…hoping to catch some of the excitement of my Christmas fairy friend, wanting to embrace some of the simplicity of another mother of three, praying to remember the wisdom of my fellow farmer’s wife.

Then I can face the rest of my Christmas to-do list with a bit more perspective and patience, a bit less rush and restiveness.

How about you?  What are these last few days before Christmas looking like at your house?

Dec 202011
 

The latest news from our soldier brother, hastily scrawled, full of excitement about coming home.

Catching up with a new friend on the phone and realizing the similar heartaches we share.

A Christmas card from my former boss reminiscing about the days when we all worked together.

I didn’t expect it to bring me to tears here in these quiet moments I caught away from home this afternoon.

But it did.

The longing for that day when He will redeem the heartache and the struggles.  When time and space won’t separate us from our loved ones.  When we’ll be Home forever.

{click here for more thoughts on “home for the holidays” over at YLCF today…all written last week}

Dec 172011
 

They say women are like spaghetti—everything’s connected, everything in our life touches something else.

Yet I never feel like I can keep it all connected. 

I throw all I have into one area, and everything else lapses. 

(And then I feel like a failure even in that one area.) 

Too often, there’s such a disconnect between the way I feel about my kids and the way I talk to them.

And some days, the little people who look just like us are enough to keep my husband and I more disconnected than connected.

And sometimes, it feels like I need to disconnect from my family once in a while in order to be fully connected in loving and serving them.

It’s hard to connect all the dots.

I’m just a lumpy mess of spaghetti, after all.

But I know that as long as I connect the important dots, I’ll still be able to see the bigger picture.

Five-Minute Friday: Connected