Jul 292011
 

Sunset Sky

Still.

“Be still.”

Peace, be still.”

Be still and know that I am God.”

Still?  When am I still?

My hands are busy holding, doing.  My mind is busy thinking, planning. My ears are busy listening, trying not to hear.

But He commands me, just as He commanded the waves that day—“be still.”

I step outside.  The wind that He bid be still is whispering.  The earth that He made is literally singing forth His praise.

Somehow, out here, with the sun at my back and the wind in my face, it’s easier to be still.  Easier to listen.  Easier to hear.

Maybe the expanse of sky is less distracting than the expanse of dirty dishes.  Maybe there’s less that’s just stuff and more that points to the all-wise Creator.

Maybe I’m just a farmer’s wife, a country girl, who feels closer to her Maker when walking the dust He formed man from.

But when I need to be still, I step outside where nothing is still and yet everything still points to Him.

Sunset Sky

Jul 282011
 

Simplify.  It’s the name of the game here.  And to do that, we have to organize, organize, organize.

Not that we work better under pressure, but this is my sister’s last week here for the summer.  We’re in the midst of one hundred and twenty seven projects or so.  She’s dusting my books (the kind of dusting where she takes the books off the bookshelves, you know).  I’m working on a project for next month at YLCF.  She’s making granola and cookies and zucchini bread.  I’m paying bills and hoping to see the wood that is my desk before she leaves.

I went through my entire closet and most of my dresser yesterday.  She lent her fashion advice.  Why is it that half the things I’m thinking of getting rid of she decides to say are “so cute!”?  Of course, the other half she declines when I offer them to her and I know that probably is my cue to get rid of them.  In sorting my clothes, it became obvious that I have a thing for tank tops and skirts.  I own a lot of jeans, too, but they don’t all fit me at once—they are for each of the different stages of pre, post, and maternity wear.  But my tank tops and skirts?  Yes.  An addiction.  At least the tank tops wear out and can be disposed of (and replaced!) as they do.  But my skirts?  I’m attached to the cuteness.  New resolution: wear skirts more often for everyday.  (Especially since I only have very few one pair of capris and one pair of jeans that fit me right now.  Maybe I need to buy more jeans?)

When my mom was here a few weeks ago, we delved into the girls’ toys and clothes.  My girls also own enough dresses for several more little girls.  And my son?  He could have been twins and still have plenty of clothes!  People have been so generous with gifts and hand-me-downs.

So I have a huge box for the children’s consignment shop.  And I gave a big box to my mother-in-law last night (she was excited to have new clothes—and I was excited to get rid of them!).

But of course, each project seems to lead to opening yet another can of worms.  Like when Aunt Katie came over yesterday with all the hair thingies that don’t work on her hair now that she cut it short.  After the girls had emptied them all over the table and floor and was wearing them as necklaces, rings, and bracelets (rather than the headbands and rubber bands they were!), I decided I might as well go through all my hair things as well.  (Same thing—I cut my hair short and don’t wear most of them anymore!)  That mess spent half the day on the kitchen table.  And of course when I got under my bathroom sink to dig out all my bobby pins I discovered that a some hand manicure cream had leaked all over one drawer which led to washing the drawer and everything in it and reorganizing everything in the bathroom cupboard!  Like I said, a can of worms.

And then there were my adorable little flower pots.  Ones that I’ve collected because they were too cute.  But they’ve sat in my closet un-used because they are too small to be practical, for roots or for watering purposes.  They are now all washed and on their way to be consigned.

I’m in the mood to simplify.  I got Tsh Oxenreider’s (of the Simple Mom website) book Organized Simplicity from the library but was so behind in everything I only finally opened it when it was about due back!  But the first few chapters I did read were very inspiring.  It’s back on hold.  And I’m going to read the whole thing this time.  (The whole family mission statement idea could make for some great date night conversation this fall, methinks.)

But meanwhile?  It’s back to simplifying and organizing and finishing those one hundred and five projects before I don’t have my sister’s help any more!

Jul 262011
 

Pinterest_FaviconI’ve finally figured out how to describe Pinterest.  It’s like all the pretty pictures we used to cut out of magazines when we were little.  Except, instead of pasting them on construction paper or putting them in magnetic photo albums, we pin them to our online Pinterest boards.  And, of course, instead of finding the pictures in catalogs and magazines, we find them in blogs and webzines.  And thanks to the world wide web, we can show our friends all the fun things we’ve collected pictures of without ever leaving our computers.

When I was little, I liked cats.  So much that I started a girls’ club called the “Purry Kittens” along with my cousin Melissa.  All of us girls in the PK’s fed our love of cats and kittens by collecting pictures of cats.  Greeting cards, calendars, magazines, rubber stamps—if it had cats on it, we cut it out and put it in our cat albums.  There was even a section of our original “PK News” newsletter dedicated to sharing cat picturess.

The club grew up and became YLCF.   I grew up and don’t actually have the dozens and dozens of kitties I planned on.  But I realized, the other day, that I still have that little girl penchant for collecting pictures of pretty things.  It just happens on Pinterest instead of in the pages of magnetic photo albums these days.  And, oh yes, I’m pinning pictures of more than just cats.  (In fact, my PK friends would be scandalized—I don’t think I’ve yet pinned a kitty picture!  I’d better remedy this post-haste. Winking smile)

So here’s a very basic explanation of Pinterest from a relative newbie—for my mom who’s learning Twitter this week and doesn’t want one more online thing to have to manage, and for my aunt who says it’s not a good idea to follow her on Pinterest because she’s lost. Winking smile

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Jul 252011
 

“Writing down the gifts that He fills our days with isn’t as important as letting gratefulness permeate our lives and our thoughts. It is the being aware and the taking time to notice more than anything. Writing it down just keeps us accountable, it helps us to remember on rainy days what the sunshine looks like, and how refreshing raindrops can be if we let them wash away the dust. It gives us a chance to share, and connect, and rejoice together in the good things that He is doing for us. So, I don’t write these lists to show off, to look more thankful than someone who doesn’t write them down, but simply as a way to build up those ebenezers to testify that in the little things and the big things, He is good, He is faithful, He is God.

-Chantel Brankshire, “One Thousand Gifts: why I count”

There’s something about doing things with friends that keeps us accountable.  There’s something about reading a friend’s words about their life to put perspective on my own.  There’s something about encouraging a friend that encourages me.  That’s why I’m so thankful for these friends who are counting the gifts along with me—from the mundane to the miraculous, we keep each other accountable to give thanks in every thing.

“I’ve loved the process of recording all the little gifts that I find in the everyday of life and it’s something that I most certainly want to continue…  Along with helping to give me an attitude of thanksgiving and to notice God’s gifts throughout the day, an unexpected blessing has been that it’s a way for me to record and remember all the cute things my littles are doing and saying…  As a mommy with not a lot of extra writing time on her hands, being able to quickly jot down a cute saying of Cedar’s or what Genoa just did before I forget it has been wonderful.  Though it’s hard and “in the trenches”, this is such a gift-full season of my life and I don’t want to forget them in the busyness of it all.”

-Jessica Telian, “One thousand gifts…six months later”

394. The miracle of birth—magnified by the miracle of a birth with gastroschisis.

395. Catching appendicitis in time—a successful surgery for a friend’s child.

396. Finally finding makeup I like—and finding out the company is owned by Christians.

397. The irrigation being done for the moment—meaning mornings and evenings with my love at home.

398. My sister being here.

399. Hearing a friend’s voice on the phone.

400. Taking the time to go along with my husband on a long drive, just because.

401. Little eggs from new pullets.

402. An unexpected invitation to dinner out.

403. Salsa and chips.

404. Late movie nights with my husband.

405. The wind and the sunshine—quiet reminders of His power and presence.

406. Having a bunch of books requested from me on PaperbackSwap.

407. My cousin making it home safely from Africa.

408. Skype sessions with “Grandpa and Grandma.”

409. The “wise women” boards on my Pinterest feed.

…this life… this one life I have & everything I pack into it is a gift.

I’m re-learning the graceful art of counting the gifts, the blessings.

I think of that quote, “What if you woke up tomorrow with only what you thanked God for today?”

And I am haunted.

I am reminded.

I am compelled.

I am counting.

Again.

-Nish, “I am.”

Jul 222011
 

image My days are full.  Dishes, laundry, diapers, cooking, cleaning.

My arms are full.  Kisses, snuggles, coos, giggles, hugs.

My life is full.  Love, laughter, family, faith.

Yes, my cup isn’t just half-full—it’s full. 

Full to the overflowing.  With good gifts.

Thank You, Lord, for the full days, full arms, full life you’ve given me.  May I never take it for granted.  “Better full than empty…”

Five-Minute Friday Prompt: Full

Jul 212011
 
  • How tiny they are.
  • The adrenaline rush that follows labor, preventing one from sleeping that first night, even when Baby is resting quietly.
  • How little sleep a person can run on.
  • How even the preemie size diapers slide off their little bottoms that first week or two.
  • How easy it is to fall asleep nursing.
  • That one should never open the last package of getting-too-small diapers: every one will leak.
  • That preemie clothes may only fit for one day, newborn size for two weeks at the most.
  • That the moment everyone is dressed in matching outfits someone will spill, spit up, or soak through.
  • That the baby acne comes out right on time for one-month photos.
  • That baby acne disappears, giving way to cradle cap.
  • That long naps eventually happen, giving you more than two seconds with two hands free.
  • That baby hair falls out faster than it grows back in.
  • That mommy’s hair starts falling out right about the time baby’s hair has stopped falling out.
  • That you get more positive comments if you only have the baby with you.
  • The precious little coos…
  • How many diapers you go through in a day.
  • How fast they grow.

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