Mar 312011
 

my Bess Streeter Aldrich collectionI had the titles that sat on my grandmother’s bookshelf beside the fireplace nearly memorized.  I studied the spines as I sat in the big cozy chair.  The Rim of the Prairie. A White Bird FlyingA Lantern in Her HandSpring Came On Forever. My grandmother loved Bess Streeter Aldrich.

Somewhere in my teens, I finally picked one up—I think it was A Lantern in Her Hand—to see what grandma thought was so wonderful about this author.  But I couldn’t figure it out.  I never could get “into” the book.  So back it went on Grandma’s bookshelf.

Upon reading an excerpt of Mother Mason in New Attitude Magazine in my late teens, I picked up Mother Mason from my mom’s collection of homeschool books and thoroughly enjoyed it.  But I don’t think it registered that she was the author of the same books I couldn’t get into at my grandmother’s.

In my early twenties, collecting books with homeschooling in mind, I picked up a Bess Streeter Aldrich Treasury.  I knew she was a classic author.  Perhaps I’d been too young to appreciate her.  But it sat on the shelf with the rest of my classic authors, collecting dust, joined occasionally by yet another Bess Streeter Aldrich book that this antique book lover couldn’t resist.

Until one evening when my husband and I were perusing our shelves, trying to decide on the next title for him to read aloud in the evenings.  “We could always try some Bess Streeter Aldrich,” I suggested.

So he got a chair and rescued the book from its high spot on the shelf.  Skimming through the collection, he landed upon one title.  “This isn’t what the movie ‘Cheers for Miss Bishop’ is based on, is it?” he asked.

I had no idea.  He went on to tell me what an awfully boring movie it was.  But he proceeded to start reading me the book anyway.

It took us a bit to get into it.  And it wasn’t very long before he realized it was what the infamous movie was based on.  But we kept reading.  And found a story that was long and rambling but delightful in its own way, about a young girl starting out at a new college, where she would eventually become a teacher and spend her entire life pouring herself out for the students and faculty.

A visit to my grandmother’s house a few weeks ago found us discussing professors and the like with my sister-in-law.  “We’re reading Miss Bishop aloud,” my husband began, and before he could finish, Natalie was expressing her sympathy and exclaiming what a terrible movie it was.

My husband winked at me.  He wasn’t alone in his opinions of the movie.  But Natalie had never read the book, either, and Grandma wasn’t there right then to defend one of her favorite authors.

The book grows on you.  It really does.  And from all reports, it is much, much better than the movie.

Truly, Bess Streeter Aldrich was a talented writer.  Her ways of expressing things, her depiction of characters, is truly charming, and often brings a smile to my face.

The tale she tells in Miss Bishop is a sad one.  Full of sacrifice, selflessness, sin, and selfishness.  It is told slowly, in detail.  But it is told well.  And with an interesting look at the changes that take place from generation to generation.

I do believe I’ll recommend the book to my sister-in-law.  Through the years when she and my brother revisit their alma mater (which was nearly brand new when they began attending), she just might feel more in common with Miss Bishop.  Until then, most likely much to Natalie’s dismay, I’ll be forever associating Miss Bishop with the young and prospering Patrick Henry College.  (And I just might have to settle down on my in-law’s couch to watch the VHS version of “Cheers for Miss Bishop.”  But I won’t count on my husband’s company!) Winking smile

Have you read any books by Bess Streeter Aldrich?  Which should I read next?

written for YLCF’s March of Books

Mar 292011
 

When a PaperbackSwap package arrived the other day, I realized I had to write another post for YLCF’s “Snapshots of Favorite Books”.

Poems to Read to the Very Young

I grew up with a pink blanket and “Fuzzy Wuzzy was a bear…” and “The Goops.”  My brother and I (not to mention our mom and dad!) could quote many of the poems from memory.  But Eloise Wilkin’s Poems to Read to the Very Young was one of the books that my mom didn’t want to part with.  So I set out to find my own.

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The first time I ordered a copy from PaperbackSwap was when I discovered that they’d reprinted these beloved poems and winsome illustrations in board book form.  I was delighted to discover that the collection is now more readily available, especially in a form I can let my girls look at it without fear—but alas, the board book didn’t have all my favorites (neither “Fuzzy Wuzzy” nor “Woolly Blanket”!). 

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That didn’t stop me from getting more copies to share my beloved Eloise Wilkin with friends. But I searched long and hard to find the tall hardback copy I grew up with, which contained 70 poems (more than double what they reprinted in the board book).  I was finally rewarded on PaperbackSwap with a 1982 copy that was not only just like mine, but just like new! 

Now I can read to the girls about Fuzzy Wuzzy (as if I didn’t already have his lines memorized) from the book just like I grew up with, and they can still enjoy perusing the pictures at their own pace in the board book.  It’s a title that just might have to stay on my PaperbackSwap wish list, so that I can continue to collect more copies to give to friends—not to mention to have on hand for when my girls leave home someday!  I have an idea they might be even harder to find then. 

(You can still find the original Josette Frank collections of Poems to Read to the Very Young and More Poems to Read to the Very Young—but, while no offense is meant to Dagmar Wilson whose cheerful drawings accompanied the copies from the 1960’s, no one can illustrate a children’s book like Eloise Wilkin.  So make sure you’re getting a copy from the 1980’s for her delightful pictures to complete the poems!)

little hands reading "The Swing" in the board book

P.S. If you learn to love Eloise Wilkin, you’ll have to find My Goodnight Book and My Good Morning Book, too.  Read about my friend Amanda’s favorite Eloise Wilkin tales hereBecause what better way is there to revisit childhood than to read favorite titles from childhood?

Mar 282011
 

Maybe it’s because I already have so many pieces of paper and piles and notebooks and pens sitting around.  Maybe I just think better with my hands on the keyboard.  Maybe I just don’t stop long enough to write something down unless I’m sitting down.  So far, I haven’t gotten the hang of writing down the gifts in a notebook.  I tend to add them to a blog post in spurts, or more often, all at once as amidst the Monday stress I focus on remembering the gifts.  But that’s why I started counting in the first place—to keep my Mondays into perspective.  So here I am again, glancing back over my Facebook and Twitter posts for the week, thinking back on the croup and the tears and the sleepiness…and remembering all the gifts in between.  Remembering, as Ann reminded us today, that in the posture of thanks, all—even croup and sleepless nights—is a gift.

131. new glasses that aren’t taped up, with lenses that are actually the same distance from my eyes on both sides!

132. spring sunshine streaming through the windows.

133. friends that stop by with medicine, stuffed animals, balloons, and books for a sick little girl and her sister.

134. watching the girl who hadn’t eaten more than one bite of anything for the past two days eat steak for dinner.

135. Vick’s vapor rub and cool mist humidifiers.

136. burying your face in warm, clean laundry.

137. the news that my family and friends who were in and around Jerusalem last week are safe.

138. new baby chicks.

139. knowing her Marine is back in her arms.

140. friends and family saying “we prayed for you today” and “we will pray for you throughout the evening” and knowing they mean it.

141. being excused from jury duty (based on my very pregnant state).

142. a phone call from my sweet Southern friend.

143. a friend giving birth to beautiful twin girls—and another friend finding out for sure that she’s expecting twins!

144. matching curly haircuts for myself and my daughter.

145. finally having names picked out for the baby.

146. the Exergen Temporal Scanner Thermometer.

147. a much-needed good night’s sleep.

148. the amazing blood-pressure reducing affect of laying on one’s left side.

149. barbequed steaks.

150. being 34 1/2 weeks along!

Mar 252011
 

Waking up.  It’s not exactly pleasant these days.  Moving from the sweetness of slumber to the aches and pains of a pregnant body that has been too long in one position.  The only thing that gets me out of bed is the feeling that I have to move before I’m permanently stuck in that position—and that I have to visit the restroom.

But this morning, I awoke to a child coughing—my child.  I strained my ears to ascertain which one, and was quickly out of bed to get nearer.

I wrapped her up in a blanket, carried her to the couch and gave her something to drink.  Safely deposited, I went to get the now-awake younger one and turn her over to her daddy—he who had been dead to the world until his bed was being invaded by a little person.

Exhausted women may not relish waking up.  Especially when 8 months pregnant.  But mommies?  They are awake at a moment’s notice, with an energy and alertness they wouldn’t have otherwise, when they know their little ones need them.

Men who didn’t like ticking clocks in the room when they first got married learn to sleep through anything when they become daddies.  But even the soundest sleepers will awake at the slightest cry when they become mommies.


written for 5 Minute Friday with The Gypsy Mama

(Congratulations, Lisa-Jo, on the birth of little Zoe Grace!)

Mar 242011
 

Dear Ru,

One of the best things about visiting our relatives is watching them watch you.  Some of them seem to think you remind them of me when I was little.  Your daddy laughs at this, but I tell him just wait until you have a brother who’s just like he was!

With everyone around, more of your quotes and sayings get heard and remembered.

Aunt Jessica was told:

“My teeth won’t let me whistle!”

She also shared with her friends that,

In other news: Ruth has renamed Caleb “Uncle Cake.”

Cousin Abbie caught this conversation between you and your 5-year-old second cousin:

Ruth called her little cousins, “my new friends.” Aleah responded with: “We aren’t new friends, you just don’t see us very much!”

Finally, Aunt Natalie gave a hilarious account of the way you entertained everyone while Mommy tried to nap:

I think my favorite part of the whole weekend was sitting in the parlor with the rest of the family on Saturday morning while 3-year-old Ruth Ann and 1-year-old Mary Kate sang and danced.

“Our mornings frequently start with calls to clap our hands and sing praises to God in the middle of the kitchen,” the girls’ mother Gretchen explained.

Ruth Ann danced and sang and danced and sang and then paused. “Clap ya hands!” she would call until we all joined in. Then back she went to singing. “God made everything! In my heart! God wakes me up with the morning light!” At one point, she added, “God made everything! Every HOUSE! And every CHICKEN COOP!” Did I mention she’s growing up on a farm?

We laughed and clapped and smiled until we being so happy wore us out! But not Ruth Ann. She just kept bouncing. I think Ruth Ann knows a lot about how to start a day.

I guess our friend Lionel was onto something when he made this observation after the Independence Day get-together we had at Papa and Nanna’s when you were one and a half years old:

“I really believe Ruth is going to be somewhere in entertainment career.  She has a great head start right now.”

We love you, Ru.  And you sure do keep us entertained!

Love,
your mommy

Mar 222011
 

I knew they were somewhere.  After all, I had a special place for them on my bookshelf before we packed up everything during the remodel. And I wanted to take some pictures of them for the upcoming post on YLCF.  But could I find them anywhere?  No, my books about books were missing.  Positively not on any shelf anywhere.

I spent a very long time in the shed digging through all the boxes of books.  Twice.  To no avail.  I found the box they would have been if they’d been in a box.  But I really didn’t think I’d have left them in a box once we unpacked part of our books.

It wasn’t until my mother’s helper was over and I was taking advantage of her help with the girls to actually dust my house that I found them: buried under layers of dust, behind all the other books on writing, beside the typewriter atop my filing cabinet.  My books about books.

They were well-photographed and fingered and browsed through, as I thought that I really should reference them more often—particularly before book sales and the like! 

IMG_9829One was a gift from a friend.  Others were passed on from my mom.  I think at least one was a find at a thrift store or book sale.  But there they are, my books about books—there when I’m ready for them, there when I run out of books on my to-find list, there when my children are wanting to check out even more books from the library.  And they still have their own special place on my bookshelves—I just have to remember what place that is!

IMG_0166 (2)A few weeks later I was visiting my maternal grandparents.  Grandma was a Christian school librarian, and from the moment you walk in the door, their home bears testimony to the fact that you are among book lovers. 

I hadn’t even thought to ask Grandma for some books about books.  But there they were, in their own special spot on her bookshelves: older versions of some of the books I had, and other titles I’d never even heard of before.  One that especially intrigued me was a 1946 hardback by Anne Thaxter called Treasure for the Taking: A Book List for Boys and GirlsApparently books about books are nothing new, but I think it might be fun one of these days to explore in more detail what they recommended in the 1940’s!

IMG_0159 (2)Grandma caught me taking pictures of her books about books and offered that I could borrow any I liked.  “That’s okay,” I explained, “I just wanted some pictures of them to illustrate my posts—I already have plenty of books about books to reference if I ever take the time!” 

And I’m glad I took those pictures.  Because as I sit here and look at them, I realize how much these books in my grandmother’s library, un-read though they might have been, have had an influence on me.  How to Grow a Young Reader, How to Raise a Reader, How to Hook Your Kids on Books.  My grandparents raised readers in my mom and my uncle, and they in turn raised 8 cousins who read voraciously. 

But the titles that most typify my grandparents?  They are the ones below.  My grandma has A Passion for Books.  My wise papa knows all about Reading Between the Lines in Great Books of the Christian TraditionAnd between the two of them, they’ve exemplified to their children and grandchildren the truth that: “you are the same today as you’ll be in five years except for two things, the people you meet and…The Books You Read.”

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That’s why books about books can be so important: they give you a guide to the Treasure for the Taking, they direct you to the best of the Honey for a Child’s Heart.  And so I’ll keep on collecting them as I strive to instill A Passion for Books in my children—and someday, Lord willing, my grandchildren…

Written for YLCF’s March of Books “Books About Books” Carnival

Mar 212011
 

It’s been several weeks of little internet and lots of traveling, little down time but lots of good times.  Between the March of Books and using scheduled posts, I’ve missed posting several Mondays worth of gifts.  And truth be told, I’ve missed writing them down.  I even tucked a spiral bound sunflower notebook in my book bag on the trip.  But I’m not sure why I take book bags along when I travel because I rarely open them except to stuff more in!

I suppose these past few weeks have been spent reveling in the gifts rather than recording them.  And sometimes, that’s okay, too, I think—to just live life and live the thankfulness rather than writing it all down.

But now I’m back home and plowing through the piles on my desk while peering through glasses that were broken and now sit askew, muddling my vision and forcing me to remember that everything (even broken glasses and bills to be paid) is a gift from His hand…  So it seemed like a good time to think back over the weeks I’ve been away and write down a few of the gifts that come to mind.

Meanwhile, it’s the last day to enter YLCF’s giveaway of two copies of Ann Voskamp’s book One Thousand Gifts! Read Jessica’s review and enter the giveaway—and if you missed it, here’s my review, too.

Now, back to counting each thing as a gift…

103 red rubber balls.

104 $2 maternity pants.

105 my chauffeur (my husband).

106 French fries and ice cream at a favorite childhood stop.

107 my cousins.

108 watching a beautiful celebration of true love.

109 rain staying away a day for a lovely, mud-free wedding.

110 the antics of flower girls and ring bearers.

111 grandparents who live lives of faith and love.

112 catching up with dear ones.

113 spending time with those who have known you since childhood and love you anyway.

114 90% cocoa Lindt chocolate from my grama.

115 a card from Erin.

116 sleeping in one’s own comfy bed (home sweet home).

117 sunshine and green grass.

118 corned beef, cabbage & mashed potatoes for dinner in celebration of “John Deere Day” (as this farmer’s girl has long called it).

119 an 18-month-old who tries to be such a big helper (even if she breaks Mommy’s glasses meanwhile).

120 being back with our church family again.

121 a lady at the optometrist’s who reminds you that children are a blessing and a miracle (she should know—she had seven pregnancies, but only two of her children lived).

122 an email from Sarah.

123 matching new hair cuts for my daughter and myself.

124 getting paid.

125 a direct message from someone I respect.

126 pictures and memories.

127 a really handsome date to a really beautiful Western-style wedding.

128 so many friends due with so many babies in these next few weeks and months.

129 two fun new movie series for the rare, quiet movie nights.

130 a husband who takes care of me.