Dec 222010
 

The sun is reflecting on the snow, the recent flakes dripping and sliding gently off our roof.  We’re rejoicing in the birth of a new little second cousin to our girls, aptly named Selah Joy.  And we’re anticipating the celebration of our Savior’s birth.

I’m looking forward to spending time with family, doing more baking and eating less Christmas cookies, taking pictures and making memories.

So until the New Year dawns and I’m back to routine and writing, I thought I’d just leave you with a few favorite links and articles that are just the thing for this time of year…  (Feel free to leave your favorites in the comments!)

YLCF first annual Christmas Post Card ExchangeThere’s a virtual Christmas post card exchange over at YLCF—stop in, read the post cards, and share your own!  (Did you see our post cards and family Christmas card picture?)

My precious friend Lanier, a veritable Christmas fairy, has had a collection of beautiful posts about Christmas trees and books and birds on her site lately.  In her latest, she shares two MP3’s of Christmas music she and her friends recorded.  (Download even more of her lovely pieces on her music page.)

Lisa-Jo has had a beautiful series on her blog called “Pregnant with Christmas” (she’s expecting her third child, too).  You’ll want to read the latest, part 4: “The Choosing.”

And of course, if you haven’t dropped in at Ann Voskamp’s for a taste of the Holy Experience she finds in waiting for Christmas, you’re missing out on a paradigm shift.

My dear friend Ashleigh puts hope and healing into words this Christmas, pointing us to the One Who was born to hold us in our hurts—even when Christmas is painful.

Finally, over at (in)courage, Robin put in a nutshell the reason I won’t be seeing you again until January: the most meaningful present is presence.

Until the New Year, then…

Dec 212010
 

We wish you a Merry Christmas!

Dear Ones,

Christmas music is streaming through the speakers; snow covers the hills, grass, and trees outside. We’re making Christmas cookies and putting up twinkle lights. It’s another Christmastime already—and it’s hard to believe all the changes in our little home since last year!

The first months of the year found my husband hard at work finishing up our new bedrooms. I’m not sure if we or the girls were more excited to move into them! From cozy carpet to red drapes to familiar pictures soon to be hung on the walls now that we have time, it’s lovely to have a room for just the two of us again. The girls delight in having a bookshelf all their own (which they empty on a regular basis), and a room in which Pooh, Piglet, dollies, and toys can be strewn everywhere.

Ruth Ann turned 3 years old in November. She is all girl, yet very much a farmer’s daughter! She loves her chickens, toy tractors, John Deere hat, and working in her “garden.” She also “cooks” magnets and Cheerios with any bowls and measuring spoons she can purloin from my drawers. She loves to look at books, draw pictures, and write her “letters”—but so far she’s a bit too busy to settle down to focus on learning to read or write. A highlight of Ru’s year was getting a John Deere pedal tractor for her birthday—“just like Daddy’s.”

Mary Kate celebrated her very first birthday the end of August. She doesn’t just walk—she runs, and usually into trouble. She is as active as her big sister was laid back—probably because she copies everything her sister does these days! As many messes as she makes, it’s nice to see her neatness coming out as she gets a clean washcloth out of the drawer and stoops over to mop up the latest spill (real or invisible) on the kitchen floor—just like Mommy. She loves to put things in the garbage, read books, and tease her sister. She’s also the best snuggler and adores her stuffed animals (especially the tiny finger puppets she sleeps with!).

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Dec 202010
 

8. laying awake long into the night, talking about everything and nothing with my best friend, my husband!

9. a webcam conversation with my cousin Jennifer in Africa, in which my daughter couldn’t believe it was nighttime and summertime there, but was thrilled to hear she lived in the same place as Curious George.

10. fresh clean snow covering the ground.

11. homemade waffles.

12. knowing a dear friend has just had two dream-like weeks with her Marine home on R&R.

13. moonlit snow.

14. having daughters who wake up each day think nothing would be better than going to the home of one set of grandparents or the other.

15. peppermint coffee and gingerbread cookies.

Dec 182010
 

Ru,

You’ve been full of it lately.  So much so that we race to the computer right after you’ve said something to get the details of the quotation just right.

Last night Daddy was putting you girls to bed and I sat at the computer to record your latest sayings.  “There, the Ru quotes of the day are duly recorded,” I informed him.

Until you got up, sans the pajamas, and explained:

“But the blanket wanted to feel me!”

I took a break from our movie to record that one, after sending you back to bed, pajamas or no!

~

Driving past a tractor dealer, you exclaimed:

“There’s a red tractor, Daddy!  Tractors aren’t supposed to be red—they’re supposed to be green!”

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Dec 172010
 

Dear Dad & Mom,

You will be so surprised when you visit this summer! The new bedrooms had barely taken shape when you were here last fall, but now they not only have color on the walls, but carpet on the floors and beds and curtains in, too! Merritt and I moved into our room the end of January. At that point, we moved the girls back into the living room and finished their sheetrock, getting them all moved in by the first of March, right before we came to visit you. (We knew if we didn’t get into the rooms before we left, things would get too busy when we got back. Thanks again for all your help with the addition, Dad—it would have taken a lot longer without your concentrated assistance!)

Thanks so much for your hospitality when we were there, your babysitting so Merritt and I could go out together—so good to see you all again. My siblings are growing up way too fast.

Love,
your eldest

Dear Will & Natalie,

Thanks so much for stopping by en route to one of our very favorite places—Yellowstone! How I wish we could be there spending the summer with you (hearing the stories about the cases you deal with in a national park is amazing). But we’re sorta kinda busy here. It was a wet spring, and it’s been a challenge getting the hay in without rain.

It’s the first summer I’ve not worked in the family business, and it’s been quite nice to stay home with the girls. Not that I haven’t kept busy—oh, have I been busy! It seems the laundry and the cooking is never-ending. I didn’t have quite as much time for tending my herb garden or baking this summer, either. But the girls and I got lots of sunshine and had lots of fun together. It’s been fun. Plus, they got to take in their first parade, have visits from Great Papa and Grandma, not to mention you two, Dad and Mom, and a whole bunch of other family members—it’s been a full and busy summer!

It’s so good to see you two so happy together. I just wish you lived closer! Have fun with Dad, Mom, Jessica, and Caleb when they come visit (I’m so glad they get to come before Dad starts his new job!). Give our love to the grizzly bears—and most especially, Riverside Geyser.

Love,
your sis

Dear Melissa,

Your wedding was beautiful. And my hubby got to come! I’m really glad it rained so he couldn’t be cutting hay, because I’m not sure I could have managed that trip without him. You didn’t know it then, but I was in the throes of morning sickness, and incredibly exhausted from our long summer, too. It was really nice to get away—but even more special to get to see you wed!

You were a beautiful bride. And you seem to have married into a really neat family, too! I’m excited that you will live a bit closer when your husband starts seminary. Maybe, perhaps, we can see each other more often—though probably never again as often as those carefree summers when it seemed we were always visiting there on the ranch.

I’m feeling old. Oh wait, we are old! But I wouldn’t trade our happiness now for those easy days of our childhood. And I know you’d agree—because when you and your new husband came over for dinner when we were visiting my family this fall, it appeared you two enjoy being married just as much as Merritt and I do. Here’s to being honeymooners forever!

Love you,
your cousin Gretchie

Dear Dad & Mom,

It started snowing as soon as you left for Israel. We had a very white Thanksgiving! Not to mention a busy one, with you gone, and the guys trying to keep the work all done in addition to keeping us plowed out from under all this beautiful white fluff.

I think the snow is here to stay until next spring. But it helps it feel like the Christmas season, since I haven’t yet had the energy to tackle decorating. We decided that a tree wouldn’t be a wise idea for us this year, since Mary would be worse than a cat and dog combined when it came to ornaments and trees! Maybe between all of us we can keep her out of the tree when we’re over at your house.

I am planning to put up Christmas lights around a few of the windows—I think the girls would love it. We’re staying warm, thanks to our cozy house and ample wood supply for the stove. I’m making applesauce and apple butter and trying to get back into the swing of things since coming home from my parents’.

Merritt and I went into the hospital for an ultrasound on Monday (we left the girls with Marlys, remembering how Ruth had turned off the power to the entire ultrasound system during Mary’s ultrasound!). Our newest little baby is growing just fine—an active little one, hardly posing for the camera. But we got lots of pictures anyway—remind me to show you when you get home. There are a few other surprises when you get home, too—like our new car, large enough to hold our growing family!

We love you and can’t wait to see you when you get back. (Ruth has said nearly every day since you left that she wants you to “drive” back from Israel that day.) So thankful the fire wasn’t worse over there. But I’m still jealous you got to meet Elisabeth!

Love,
your daughter in law

Dec 162010
 

imageAnthony DeStefano’s Little Star is my girls’ favorite Christmas story this year.  But it’s not the typical cheerful Christmas story, at least not at first glance.

Little Star is so small and tiny that everyone ignores him.  But then, on that special night, Little Star understands that it truly is a King being born in that lowly stable.  Seeing what the other more popular stars overlook, Little Star shines his brightest to celebrate.

All the stars tell him to stop or he will burn out.  But Little Star shines so brightly that he literally lays down his life to shine the joy of Jesus’ birth.

The story doesn’t end there—Little Star truly receives the reward that was offered for the star who could shine the brightest on the night of the King’s birth.  And the verse on the last page points to the reason that King was born: to lay down His life for us.

A perfect gift book this Christmas, Little Star is filled with bright illustrations which children can easily identify with.  But most important, it has a story that helps them learn, not only about Christmas, but about the importance of being willing to stand alone, and even lay down our lives, for Jesus.

Thanks to WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group for the free review copy we received of Little Star!

P.S. I just have to say that something else fun about Little Star is it reminds me of a story I read as a child, a vintage pop-up book of my grandma’s: The Shiniest Star. Beth Vardon’s 1950’s tale is of a little angel named Touslehead, whose job it was to shine that very important star.  (Search E-bay for adorable shots of the pages.)

Dec 152010
 

Dear Littlest One,

A week ago Monday, Mommy and Daddy got to see you for the very first time!  Mommy was 18 1/2 weeks along on December 6, which meant you were about 16 weeks “old.” Oh the wonders of ultrasound technology!

We laughed as the ultrasound tech pretended to count to 5.  I knew better than that—I could see that there was just one of you in there.  I was pretty sure I’d have been feeling more kicking than I already was if you had a twin in there with you—but I always wonder if we’ll see a double surprise on the screen.

face with waving handAbout all I could tell was that you were there, though.  As to whether you’re a boy or girl, only the ultrasound tech and your Creator know.  If it hadn’t been for him telling us, your Daddy and I wouldn’t have known that was your little hand up there by your head waving at us.

hand/armBut there you were, every little feature perfect.  All your little fingers there on your hand.  And two little tiny feetbaby feet kicking around in Mommy’s tummy.  Little as you are, you sure make some big movements in there, though!  Daddy hasn’t been able to feel you yet, but Mommy is reminded of your presence quite frequently these days.  Especially when I eat something you think particularly yummy.

We got to bring home lots of pictures of you this time.  I’m not sure if that’s because you were being particularly cooperative (your big sisters were so stubborn about simple profile shots!) or if the hospitals are getting more generous in their printouts these days.  You seemed tinier than I remember your sisters being on screen, but I think I’m probably not quite as far along with you as I was when we saw Mary on ultrasound, at least.

It was so fun to catch glimpses of your feet and hands (I could just hear what your grandpa would say–that you had all your fingers, in teasing reference to the fingers he lost in a logging accident, a condition that he likes to pretend is hereditary).  Just to see you—a living combination of us—was amazing.

We decided against bringing your sisters along, after Ruth pushed the power button on the entire ultrasound system during Mary’s ultrasound!  Ruth was only mildly impressed with your portrait—I guess it’s easier for her to imagine a baby being in my tummy than that such a funny black and white picture could be you.  But still, she’d been concerned about the appointment, after your daddy prayed that everything would go well and be okay.  She was glad to hear you were growing well, or as the technician kept saying, “Lookin’ good.”

We love you, little one.  We already adore your precious profile…  And we can’t wait to kiss those little fingers and toes when they are done filling out.  Thanks for posing for so many cute pictures.

Lots of Love & Prayers,
your mommy

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