Feb 282009
 
Tonight I showed my sister how I make lasagne, and just finished typing up the recipe for her (since I follow a conglomeration of recipes along with some of my own random additions). It’s the easiest way to make lasagne–no boiling of the noodles is required, and you don’t need “no-boil” noodles!


Gretchen’s Easy Cheesey Lasagne

(general amounts for one 13×9 pan)

Tomato Sauce:

Ground beef or sausage

1 chopped onion

Several large cloves minced garlic

Tomatoes

Tomato sauce

Tomato paste

Parsley, Thyme, Oregano, Fennel Seed, Basil

1-2 c. Water

2 T. Sugar

Salt & Pepper

Your sauce should be very liquid—it provides all the moisture necessary for cooking the noodles. You can never make too much sauce—more often you don’t have enough, so be sure to make lots and freeze any extra you happen to have.

Cheese Mix:

Cottage cheese

Ricotta cheese

1/4 c. Parmesan cheese

2 eggs

2 T. parsley

1/2 c. milk

Make this spreadable, with plenty of milk to stretch the cheeses as far as possible—you need enough for two layers in the pan.

Layering:

  1. Spread thick layer of sauce in bottom of pan, mixed with 1/2 c. water
  2. Layer of uncooked noodles (do not overlap uncooked noodles)
  3. Spread 1/2 cheese mix over noodles
  4. Sprinkle with spinach or chopped broccoli or other vegetable
  5. Layer of sauce
  6. Layer of uncooked noodles
  7. Spread noodles with other 1/2 cheese mix
  8. Sprinkle with more spinach or chopped green vegetable
  9. Layer of sauce
  10. Layer of uncooked noodles
  11. Layer of sauce (add more tomato sauce if necessary before this layer—it does not need to be as meaty)
  12. Sprinkle with grated mozzarella cheese
  13. Beware, the noodles will expand when cooking—don’t overfill your pan!

Bake covered for 1 hour or until noodles are nearly tender. Uncover and finish cooking. (Any extra moisture not needed by the noodles will evaporate after you uncover it.)

Feb 242009
 
I’m typing out our favorite clam chowder recipe from my 1956 Betty Crocker Cook Book so I don’t have to take the entire book along when we visit my family…  I thought I’d share it here as long as I was typing it.  Costco has canned clams for a fabulous price.

Clam Chowder

Saute:
1/4 c. finely chopped pork or bacon
1/4 c. minced onion
butter if needed

Add:
“sauce” from two 7-ounce cans minced or whole clams
2 c. finely diced raw potatoes
1/2 c. water

Cook until potatoes are tender (10 minutes).

Just before serving, add:
clams from two 7-ounce cans
2 c. milk
1 tsp. salt
1/8 tsp. pepper

Heat to boiling, stirring occasionally.  Serve immediately.  Makes 6 servings.

Feb 232009
 
Hey pregnant ladies and mommies, here’s a link for you to check out: http://www.beeyoutiful.com/red-raspberry-leaf/ 

I’ve heard lots and lots of good stuff about drinking red raspberry leaf tea (Traditional Medicinals has some blends of it), but it’s hard to find much online about it all.  This is the best resource on red raspberry leaf tea I’ve found online.  Check it out, as it answered lots of my questions! 

I’m going to start drinking it here as soon as I hit the second trimester…  My labor with Ruth was relatively fast and easy, but I wouldn’t mind if the red raspberry leaf tea helps this next time around go even smoother!

Feb 162009
 
February 14

I’m sitting here in my cozy house, which is built upon the exact spot my dearest bestest friend proposed to me three years ago today…  It wasn’t snowing then, though.  It was a beautiful day!  We walked to Merritt’s property without even coats on, it was so warm.  There wasn’t several feet of frozen snow on the ground, either.  I don’t think Merritt’s knee even got wet when he knelt to propose (not that either of us would have noticed). 

Three years and many special little “anniversaries” later, we’re celebrating Valentine’s Day today and every day.  Mom watched Ruth last night, so it was just the two of us at our church Valentine banquet.  And Marlys kicked me out of the kitchen as soon as my hot date arrived, so I got to sit holding my husband’s hand all evening…  He was an amazing chef in a little skit they did.  And of course, we were totally amazing in the “Not-So-Newlywed” game they played.  The questions they asked us wives were way harder (I mean, come on, would I characterize him as acting like any particular animal on our first date?  I don’t think so!  I put “gentleman”).  Merritt did perfectly on his answers, the only problem was he thought there were blue tints to my dress (which in the right light there are) and so he didn’t get the bonus 25-point question of “what is your wife wearing tonight?” or we’d have won.  The other Gretchen and her husband won.  They are newlyweds like us, they’ve just been married six years. 

Anyway, the dinner turned out amazingly well, just please don’t ask me to plan a meal for 50 again anytime soon.  We had lots of leftovers.  But with hors’dourerves and salad and then a big main course, people don’t eat as much.  We also had only two teenage boys, and they were servers!  Marlys did a spectacular job managing her first-time “wait staff”, but I believe I did hear some references to the fact that she liked her conference center kitchen better and reminding herself this wasn’t the conference center…  Not that anyone is specially attached to the conference center or the cook she met there…

We’re going to brave the snow and go to town to buy ourselves shoes on Valentine’s Day.  Yes, that’s very romantic.  The tennis shoes my boyfriend bought me four years ago are rather wearing out.  And Keens are 20% off at our shoe store today.  That was one of the questions last night…”what is the most your wife has ever spent on shoes?”  There was another shoe question, “How many shoes does your wife own?”  What do they think, that husbands don’t know these things?  It’s been years since I’ve bought a pair of shoes without my fashion expert at my side.  And since my shoes are lined up on his side of the bed, the man knows very close to how many I have. 

Speaking of him, he’s home!  Off to get some hugs and kisses!!!

Feb 102009
 
Dear Punkin’,

You are getting to be “so big”!  You’re even gaining some weight.  Saturday night you weighed in at 18.6 pounds, which means you’ve gained half a pound since we got home from California.  Good for you!  Apparently you’re growing at the same rate as your mommy did, though, because I only weighed 19 pounds at 15 months.  You’re getting so tall, too.  We had you stand up against a wall and marked down your height–continuing in the tradition of the walls at your grandparents’ and great-grandparents’ houses.  You are 27 and 3/4 inches tall.

You’ve suddenly become very proud of your big fat tummy.  You randomly pull up your shirt and rub your hands proudly across your tummy.  Your daddy quickly caught on and now when we ask you where your big tummy is you are quick to show us.  I’m afraid Mommy’s going to win the big fat tummy competition pretty quickly here, though, with your baby brother or sister growing in my tummy!

On Sunday you finally got to meet little Braxton.  You positively loved him.  In fact, you made his big sister Cadence jealous because you didn’t want to play with her, you wanted to rock Braxton in his seat, pat his tummy, and lay your head down on his legs giving him loves.  You’re going to be the best big sister ever.

Friday night you let Mommy and Daddy sleep the whole night long.  It was so very nice.  Your eye teeth are all coming in, but you do really well, only waking up about once a night to be comforted. 

Your singing voice just keeps getting better.  You sang lots at church on Sunday.  We just have to learn how to say “yes” quietly when Daddy asks you if you want something during church.  Oh yes, you’ve learned to say yes!  It’s a very enthusiastic “yae yi yae yi yae.”  Usually accompanied by bouncing up and down.  You know what you want.  Whether we ask if you need to go potty or you want your nummers, you have the answer.  You haven’t learned “no” yet, though–you just ignore us if you don’t want to go potty!

You were told “Shhh” so much during church on Sunday that you learned to say it all by yourself!  Apparently you thought Daddy was picking his nose when he was telling you “Sshh”, but at least you learned to say it!  Not sure you’ve learned what it means, but you stick your finger in your nose or your mouth or across your lips and make an “ssss” sound for us–at the most random times, including getting in your car seat!

You got an American Girl “Bitty Baby” for Christmas from your Great Grandpa and Grandma Mann.  And it just finally got here having been sent to Aunt Megan’s house and then being brought home by Aunt Mouse when she was taking care of your cousins.  You were so very excited when you opened it.  You are fascinated by the eyes and hands.  You know it’s just like a real baby.  You snuggle its face up next to yours, and give it nice long kisses.  At the same time as you’re playing with your truck and tractor.  You’re all girl, but you’re a farm girl, that’s for sure! 

This morning you were driving your John Deere tractor from Uncle Mason all around the living room.  Then you were peering down into Daddy’s magazine basket.  Next thing I know you’re looking through the little catalog of John Deere toys.  When you saw me coming you put it back and started playing with your tractor again.  I think your tractor had made you think of the catalog!

You’re so very, very close to walking.  Your little friend Merritt Will just started walking, and he’s only 20 days older than you.  Maybe that means I’ve got about 15 more days left without you running around the house?  We’re going to buy you new shoes this week, because all of a sudden all your shoes are too small–especially when you wear your nice warm socks.  Maybe new shoes will help.

I love you, little Punkin’.  Thanks for being the best daughter we could ever ask for.  The other night we were getting you out of the bath and Daddy was saying how you were just the best Punkin’ ever.  I mentioned your little brother or sister arriving, and Daddy told you, “Yes, but you’ll always be my Punkin’.”

Lots of love to our Punkin’,
Mommy

Feb 102009
 
My sister-in-law is amazing.  She made us a Chinese meal last night, to help fill my constant pregnant craving for Chinese food.  She’s not only a gourmet cook, she’s become quite the proficient Asian cook in the past, ah, year.  You see, she’s been getting to know this guy who’s not only Asian, but an Asian cook.  (We won’t go into the fact that one good cook marrying another is really such a waste…)  It really showed last night–she made us eat with chopsticks!  I was surprised at how well I did, since it’s been years since I even tried.  She says the way you really learn to use them is to eat with nothing else but chopsticks for a whole month.  I don’t think we’ll be trying that…but we won’t be opposed to her cooking us another Chinese meal that we have to use chopsticks for. 

Speaking of my sister-in-law, congratulations to Marlys and David on “officially” beginning their courtship.  Nothing like February for starting courtships…  We started courting four years ago, February 23.  And we were engaged three years ago, February 14!  February’s a good month.

It’s going to be a busy, busy slice of February around here this week, however.  We have at least one trip to town every single day this week, in addition to doing all the shopping and a lot of cooking for our church’s Valentine banquet.  I’ve never planned a meal for 50 people before–I’m glad to have the help of my gourmet sister-in-law. 

Feb 062009
 
Thursday…
  • I think I’ve figured out why our nation is in so much debt.  Half the politicians aren’t paying their taxes.
  • Turbo Tax is spectacular.  I say it again.  I just love seeing that figure rack up of the rebate we’re going to get.
  • How many of you young couples have written a will?  Saw Costco advertising the Quicken Will Maker.  It’s certainly cheaper than paying a lawyer.  (At least until a certain brother is a lawyer and can do it all for us for the very privilege of being our children’s uncle.)
  • George Mueller’s autobiography is a very good thing to be reading during economic crisis.
  • My sister-in-law is stretching me to new things.  How many of you have ever designed a chapstick label?  www.alaskamaidsoap.com is expanding.  I told Mel she has to make vanilla chapstick if I’m going to design her labels.  Because I’ll use nothing else.
  • Continued progress update on Gracie–other than screaming for three hours this morning for no apparent reason, Marlys says she’s been doing really well.  Her arm is in a splint wrapped with an ace bandage.  The doctor has no plans to remove that until the bone is healed, not wanting to have to re-bandage her while awake.  Marly said Grace can use her hand and fingers.  And it was her left hand, I finally remembered to ask.  And apparently she’d already been favoring her right.
  • My hubby’s winter wood project has been a bedside table.  He finished it and brought it home yesterday.  It looks absolutely beautiful.  My hubby is amazing.
  • All four of Ru’s eye teeth are about to come in.  (Are all four called eye teeth?)  It’s been a bit tough at nights.  But she’s a trooper.  Still not quite walking.  That’s everyone’s question.  She just walks along everything.  But I have a feeling when she takes off, she’s going to take off.
  • Apparently my daughter is simply taking after me as far as weight goes.  Mom looked up my growth records again.  I weighed just over 18 pounds at 1 year, and was only 19 pounds at 15 months.  But I grew three inches in that time frame!  Ru is 27 inches–we started making marks on the wall.  And I haven’t weighed her since right after we got back from California, but I’m thinking her cheeks look a bit chubbier.  So maybe we’re closer to 19 than to 18 pounds now.
  • We went to our favorite second hand store yesterday.  The ladies were oohing and awwing over Ru as they always do.  Then one of them suggested that she needed a brother or sister one of these days.  I told them there was already one on the way.  Uncle Bill’s only been hinting that Ru needed a little brother for the past six months…  And if anyone would make you want more children, Ruth would.
  • I’ve been living under a false assumption.  For some reason I thought our lil’ house was 770 square feet.  But as Merritt was calculating out how much more square footage we would gain with the addition, I found out I’ve been wrong.  We currently have 672 square feet.  Our planned addition would give us 1040 square feet total.  Wow!
  • Marlys is coming home today.  I’m so glad.  She’s promised to make me Chinese food.  Okay, I’ve missed my sis-in-law, too!  But I’m looking forward to the Chinese food.  Not much sounds good these days, except Chinese and other spicy foods.  If it’s got onions, I love it.  I made an omlette this morning, with spinach, olives, onions, cheese, and avocado.  Trying to get some protein in, because I noticed that I finally feel better after I eat meat (which sometimes doesn’t end up being until the evening meal–don’t faint, Daddy!).  Protein is just not an easy thing to have for snacks.  Last night we had baked potatoes, steamed spinach, and baked fish.  Yum, yum.  I could eat fish every meal right now.  If only it weren’t so terribly expensive.
  • I guess it’s to be expected, attending a church where more than sixty percent of the people are over sixty.  (And the couples under sixty are still old enough to be our parents, much to their apparent surprise.  Somehow the fact that I am a mother makes me much closer to their age of 49 than the age of their 16-year-old children.)  But there’s only been on funeral since we started attending, and I’ve been avoiding the thought of any others.  I love my little old people so much.  And I’m thrilled to have my baby girl growing up in a church with so many dear grey-haired saints.  But now Mr. K. has brain cancer.  The MRI Monday showed that the tumor (at the brain stem) had doubled in size in just two weeks.  I couldn’t hold back the tears when I got that call.  He’s such a dear man.  He hunts.  He calls me “Gretch”–always has.  And he adores Ruth.  He had surgery the next day.  They couldn’t get all the tumor.  It was malignant.  Pray for Dan.  Pray for his wife Dorothy.  It’s not going to be an easy road ahead.  As the letters from Pauline back at the church I grew up in tell me.  I’ve lost count of how many surgeries she’s had now.  The letter I got last week told me the doctors discovered another brain tumor.  And she’s not sure if she wants surgery this time.  Heaven is going to be one glorious reunion…
Feb 042009
 

Ever notice how once a picture is in a frame, it just belongs there, and that frame wouldn’t look right with anything else in it?  I’ve had this picture of Natalie and me in a frame with butterflies and autumn leaves for as long as I can remember.  Probably about since it was taken in November 2004.  And since I unpacked my pictures frames into my new home, it’s been on my kitchen windowsill, to smile at me while I wash the dishes. 

But last fall a bad wind came through when the windows were open, and blew the frame down into the sink.  Amazingly, the frame didn’t break, but the glass did.  We finally remembered to get a new piece of glass when we went to town, but discovered that from years of being near the sink, the picture was stuck to the broken glass.  Merritt suggested I put a newer picture of Natalie and me in it, but I just couldn’t.  That picture just belonged in there.  So this morning I dug through my box of un-scrapbooked photos.  And sure enough, there was another copy.  The frame looks right again.  And now that there’s an unbroken piece of glass–clean glass, at that!–I can see the picture much better.  Oh the memories…

Looking through the stack of pictures from that visit, all the photo shoots, the pictures Natalie took of me reading a letter from Merritt (which Natalie’s little brother Sawyer had stolen and held for ransom–at least I think that was that visit)…  How much younger we looked.  And it was just barely over four years ago!  All the hopes and dreams alive in our hearts, reflected in our faces.  We were young, happy, with barely a care in the world (however weighty matters seemed at the moment).  But I wouldn’t go back.  Even if I could.  We’ve gathered a lot of wisdom in the years since then…  And a lot of memories.  Some of which will never be able to escape from my picture frames…